Take Control of Your Divorce Before The Court Takes Control of You.
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THE DIVORCE
ALLIES
What story have you been holding onto? What narrative has someone else told you that has defined your sense of self? You have the power to re-write that - today.
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VIP Membership Includes 60-minute Session with One of the Allies Each Month
Expert Guidance on Your Path
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Plus, get $100 off your first month of membership.
Start today: Organize your finances, build your settlement offer, and negotiate with confidence.
Featured Products
Download Anchor the Deal – Your strategic guide to divorce settlement offers.
Learn how to take control of the negotiation process, prepare your financials, and make the first move with confidence. This guide gives you the tools, mindset, and templates to settle smart—whether you're working with a mediator, going to court, or doing it yourself.
We created Follow the Money™ - for YOU to create summaries to use in mediation and stop the manipulation. It's a step-by-step forensic guide that teaches you how to analyze the bank statements, spot manipulation, and pull together a summary so powerful it becomes instant leverage in mediation.
Inside the guide (and video workshop), we’ll show you:
🔍 How to quickly identify suspicious transactions
🔍 What patterns reveal hidden income
🔍 How to document marital waste without needing an expert
🔍 How to plug your findings into a settlement offer
🔍 How to use your summary to pressure them to settle
Most people think you need a forensic accountant to uncover the truth. But you can do 80% of it yourself - and often that’s all the leverage you need.
This is the guide & templates the divorce court system hopes you never learn.
The Thought Leader Blueprint & Content Creation Loop
Turn your ideas into income -without the burnout.
This 4-part video + workbook series walks you step-by-step through creating digital products, mastering AI tools, and building a brand that works while you rest.
💡 What’s Inside:
Module 1: Find Your Voice & Core Message
– Define your brand themes, learn how to “train” AI to sound like you, and clarify your tangible promise.Module 2: Build Your Visibility Funnel
– Turn blogs and posts into a cohesive marketing system that attracts the right audience.Module 3: Repurpose Like a Pro
– Use Canva and automation tools to multiply your reach across platforms in minutes.Module 4: Create & Sell Your Digital Product
– Structure, price, and launch your first (or next) product with confidence.
📘 You’ll Get:
4 video lessons (implementation + strategy)
4 matching downloadable workbooks (3–5 pages each)
Copy-and-paste AI prompts for every stage
Real examples from our own projects (The Divorce Vault, Anchor the Deal, and more)
✨ Perfect for coaches, creators, and thought leaders ready to turn their expertise into visibility, products, and legacy content.
From Position Statement to Settlement Offer (*Includes Guide to Position Statement & Power Moves in Divorce*)
From Position Statement to Settlement Offer: Your Roadmap to Settlement
Take control of your divorce and lead your own financial settlement with confidence.
This guide walks you step-by-step through creating your position statement, transforming it into a settlement offer, and using our proprietary excel spreadsheets to calculate and balance your property division.
These tools are the same ones we use in high-level mediation & valuation cases (excel templates are valued between $5,000–$20,000), now made available for your personal use.
You will receive:
A blank editable spreadsheet and a sample version for reference
Link to Video tutorials showing how to enter and analyze your data
Our Guide - Create a Position Statement (Sample Position)
Our Guide - Power Moves in Divorce
Strategy Videos on How to Take the Position Statement to Settlement Offer
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Melissa Gragg
FINANCIAL MEDIATOR & BUSINESS VALUATION EXPERT
Melissa Gragg, a seasoned divorce mediator and business valuation expert, specializes in the psychology of negotiation, employing mediation as an alternative dispute resolution method before resorting to court testimony. With 20+ years of experience as an expert witness, Melissa offers neutral, third-party services for business valuation, pension valuation, income analysis, and complex financial matters. -
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Emile Flowers, CDLP®
DIVORCE MORTGAGE SPECIALIST
As a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®), Emile understands that everyone's financial situation is unique and deserves personalized attention. With her knowledge and expertise, she helps clients make the right choices for themselves and their families. Additionally, during the divorce process, Emile offers specialized guidance to ensure that her clients can navigate the complexities of mortgage considerations -
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Cristin Terri
PARENTING SPECIALIST
Cristin, a Certified Divorce Coach and counselor, specializes in providing expert guidance and support during challenging times, with a particular focus on the well-being of children. Serving as a parent coordinator, coach, and counselor, she assists parents in navigating both personal parenting journeys and joint co-parenting relationships, drawing from her own successful navigation of divorce and personal experiences growing up in a divorced family. -
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Anna Graham
ENTREPRENEUR MENTOR
Within The Divorce Allies, I assist our clients in discovering and honing their unique voice, particularly during times of significant change. My goal is to help individuals navigate these transitions smoothly and effectively, leveraging strategic insights and personalized support to foster growth and success. Every business started as an idea. With the right support and knowledge, it became what it is today.
Our Membership
We believe that with the right resources and support, any couple can successfully navigate divorce, no matter how complex the situation. Through our membership, we offer real-time guidance and mentorship, empowering our clients to make informed decisions that positively shape their divorce outcomes. For just $222/month, our members receive hours of live interaction with experts—costing less than a single hour with one of them.
Weekly live sessions. Group discussions and specialized workshops.
Pre-recorded video modules for you to watch at your convenience.
Downloadable guidebooks to support you throughout your divorce process.
Our areas of expertise:
High-Conflict Behavior:
Strategies to navigate and manage interactions with high-conflict or narcissistic spouses, ensuring your peace and clarity.
Financial Assistance:
Guidance on understanding finances, from asset division to budgeting, and ensuring financial stability post-divorce.
Housing & Mortgage:
Support in evaluating housing options, navigating refinancing, or making informed decisions about staying or selling.
Parenting/Co-Parenting:
Practical tools and strategies to create a strong parenting plan, maintain stability for your children, and communicate effectively with your co-parent.
Post-Divorce Transitioning:
Assistance in rebuilding your life after divorce—whether that’s starting a new career, creating a side hustle, or finding your sense of independence and peace.
Emotional Healing and Support:
Holistic coaching and practical exercises to help you process emotions, release stress, and embrace a healthier mindset during and after your divorce.
Download Anchor the Deal – Your strategic guide to divorce settlement offers.
Learn how to take control of the negotiation process, prepare your financials, and make the first move with confidence. This guide gives you the tools, mindset, and templates to settle smart—whether you're working with a mediator, going to court, or doing it yourself.
Buy Today - Anchor the Settlement Offer
Buy Today - Anchor the Settlement Offer
Download the Anchor the Deal guide if:
You’re ready to stop reacting and start leading
You want to settle smart, not spend endlessly
You don’t have every document—but you do have the courage to begin
Take the first step. Make the first offer. Anchor the deal.
⚓ Anchor the Deal™
Make the First Move. Set the Tone. Get the Settlement You Deserve.
Anchor the Deal is your ultimate strategy guide for creating a fair and powerful divorce settlement offer—before your ex (or their attorney) defines the narrative for you.
This isn't about aggression—it's about structure, logic, and timing. Inside, you'll learn how to craft your offer using facts, documents, and a simple spreadsheet… even if you're still missing some information or dealing with a high-conflict spouse.
You’ll discover:
🧠 Why making the first offer gives you leverage
🗂️ What to include in a complete financial disclosure
📊 How to structure a 50/50-based offer (and when to adjust it)
🚩 What traps to avoid, like marital waste or separate property claims
💬 Scripts and worksheets to present your offer clearly and confidently
This guide introduces you to the Sedlment™ Method—a proven, empowering way to create momentum, resolve disputes, and keep control over your process, your future, and your peace of mind.